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A University of New Hampshire study finds 97 percent of single adults aged 60 to 83 consider sex essential to romance, and 72 percent would walk away without it.
MSM Perspective
Phys.org covered the UNH findings as a challenge to 'common assumptions about aging and intimacy'; AOL highlighted the 97 percent figure as the study's headline result.
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Senior sex researchers and aging advocates are sharing the study as vindication against the cultural assumption that desire has an expiration date.
The title of the paper is the finding: "The Shop Is Not Closed." Published in the Journal of Sex Research in February, the University of New Hampshire study surveyed single adults aged 60 to 83 about sex, dating, and desire. [1] Ninety-seven percent said sexual intimacy is essential to a romantic relationship. Seventy-two percent said they would not pursue a relationship without it. [2]
The researchers found that older daters navigate physical changes — medication side effects, chronic pain, body image — but do not abandon sexual desire. They adapt. They communicate. They prioritize connection over performance. [3] The study arrives at an interesting cultural moment. Gen Z reports declining sexual activity across multiple surveys. Their grandparents, meanwhile, are swiping right and setting expectations. The generation supposedly past its prime is outpacing the generation supposedly in it.
Nobody discusses this at brunch. Everybody googles it privately. The data says what families would rather not hear: the shop is open, the lights are on, and the hours are long.
-- CHARLES ASHFORD, London
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